3 Ways Lady Gaga’s “The Cure” Reflects Life with Fibromyalgia

3 Ways Lady Gaga’s “The Cure” Reflects Life with Fibromyalgia

The famous singer Lady Gaga disclosed that she is a chronic pain sufferer in 2007. And, she remained at the top in news that year. As an 11-year-old fibromyalgia sufferer, I became curious about how this disease might affect her music career. There are many ways to describe the lyrics of any song. I analyzed Gaga’s song “The Cure” in different ways. And, every time I found that the lyrics of this song represent the struggle of a fibromyalgia sufferer.

The three basic reasons due to which I consider this song as a struggle for people with fibromyalgia are:

Effort is required to perform simple tasks

The beginning lines of the song are “I’ll undress you, ’cause you’re tired”. And at the end, it says, “rub your feet, your hands, your legs/ let me care of it babe/close your eyes, I’ll sing your favorite song/ I wrote you this lullaby”

According to me, all these lines present the condition of fibromyalgia. This is a fact that all normal and simple tasks appear as a challenge in fibro. However, I’m lucky that my pain is not that severe as it was in the past.  But, sometimes a sudden pain is still unbearable. It does not allow me to do simple things like replying for mail, cooking my own food or walking to the class. Along with this, I need my close friends and family to support me on those days.

The most affected parts of my body are back, shoulders and neck. And I would say “massage” in the days of pain would be the best gift ever. And, this song says all these things. Therefore, I think that all the people with fibromyalgia feel the same for this song.

Living with invisible chronic pain is very hard

According to me, the one line meaning of Lady Gaga’s “The Cure” is: “Singing a song to release the pain of someone you’re in love with.”

The other hard thing about fibromyalgia is that it has no proper treatment process. There are medicines that help to ease the pain. Also, changing lifestyle can help to release pain. And Lady Gaga explains this by saying “can’t find the cure”.

It’s really painful to know that your loved one has to live a life with a pain that is incurable. It gives me the same pain too. I believe that if there is some option to shift pain, my mother would take all my pain. She feels my pain and wants to do everything to give me relief.  I’ve seen my father in pain due to my pain.

“The Cure” seems like heart-warming words from my loved ones for me when I’m deeply in pain. The words of the song give me comfort. And, it seems like someone is really worried about me. My support system is trying to do everything that gives me comfort. And, all they wanted for me is to be normal.

Love can’t cure the pain but seems to be healing

The song has beautiful lyrics: “I’ll fix you with my love”/ “Promise, I’ll be the cure”.

However, it’s also true that the pain of fibromyalgia can’t be “fixed”. There are several ways to get some relief from the pain. But, it can’t be cured completely. Therefore, the “love” from your support system makes you feel lucky and relax.

It’s more like this song explains the importance of love and support for someone suffering from chronic illness. The other fact about fibromyalgia is that it’s an invisible pain. A person seems to be normal apparently. But, in actual he is suffering from deep constant pain. Therefore, often close friends and family take a lot of time to understand your condition.

However, the love of someone who believes in your pain can’t heal your pain. But, it makes you strong to face the symptoms. Moreover, several studies have shown fibromyalgia people with a good support system have a better quality of life. And, whenever I hear Lady Gaga’s “The Cure” I smile and thanks for the lovely people I have. My parents are always ready to listen to me and comfort me. My best friends who don’t know about this illness try their best to manage my pain. And, last but not least my fellow fibromyalgia sufferers including Lady Gaga are my source of courage.

Conclusion

I don’t know the reasons behind writing “The Cure”. And, I know people will interpret the lyrics in a number of ways. Everyone takes the lyrics according to their own situations in life. But, I believe the link between “The Cure” and fibromyalgia explains the importance of love for a chronic patient.

Surely, this song will not “cure” any pain. But, it makes me realize how much love and support I have. And, this feeling will definitely soothe my pain.

How do you take this song? Which song gives you courage and strength? Do tell me in the comments!!

Source: caseythecollegeceliac.blogspot.com

Lady Gaga Wants to Raise Awareness About Fibromyalgia

Lady Gaga made a surprising announcement on Twitter early Tuesday morning: She suffers from fibromyalgia, a chronic disorder that causes widespread musculoskeletal pain, fatigue, and tenderness in certain areas. The singer made the revelation while addressing her upcoming Netflix documentary, Gaga: Five Foot Two.

“In our documentary the #chronicillness #chronicpain I deal w/ is #Fibromyalgia I wish to help raise awareness & connect people who have it,” she wrote in her tweet. This isn’t the first time Gaga has publicly discussed her chronic pain, but this might be the first time she’s disclosed her diagnosis to fans. Fibromyalgia affects up to five million Americans, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services’ Office on Women’s Health, and the vast majority of sufferers (about 80 to 90 percent) are women.

The condition can be difficult to treat, the organization says, and people often see several doctors before they get a diagnosis. People who suffer from fibromyalgia typically feel pain all over their bodies, Edward Rosick, D.O., M.P.H., an assistant professor of family and community medicine at Michigan State University, tells SELF. “They also have multiple trigger points where certain areas of their body are exquisitely tender,” he says. “If you touch them, they wince in excruciating pain.”

 

 

Aside from pain, which is the primary symptom, sufferers of fibromyalgia can experience fatigue (even after they’ve had a good night’s sleep) and difficulty focusing, according to the Mayo Clinic. The condition also often coexists with other painful disorders like irritable bowel syndromemigraines, painful bladder syndrome, and joint disorders, per the Mayo Clinic.There’s a lot experts still don’t know about fibromyalgia.

For starters, no one knows why the condition affects more women than men, Dr. Rosick says, adding that it may simply be hormonal. Experts aren’t even sure what causes fibromyalgia in the first place, but Vernon Williams, M.D., a sports neurologist and director of the Kerlan-Jobe Center for Sports Neurology and Pain Medicine at Kerlan-Jobe Orthopaedic Clinic in Los Angeles, tells SELF that there are some theories

Some experts think that the condition may be endocrine- or hormonally-based, and it may also be due to an immune abnormality. “In some cases, people have had a history of some kind of psychological or physical trauma, but we don’t know how that might affect the immune system or nervous system,” Dr. Williams says. New research has also suggested that the condition may be a neuropathic pain disorder that involves some abnormality in how the brain and spinal cord processes pain signals in people with fibromyalgia, he says. But again, there is no definitive, known cause of the disease.There is no test to tell whether someone is suffering from fibromyalgia.

Instead, people are diagnosed after a slew of other conditions are ruled out, Dr. Rosick says. And, again, that can take a while, especially given that fibromyalgia tends to develop over months or years. “People don’t just wake up one day and say, ‘Wow, I’m hurting all over,’” he says.

People with fibromyalgia can be evaluated for anxiety, depression, arthritis, lupus, or hypothyroidism, among other things, before doctors finally arrive at the diagnosis. “It’s a diagnosis of exclusion,” Dr. Rosick says.It’s possible to treat fibromyalgia, but treatment isn’t one-size-fits-all.

Treatment typically involves a combination of things, including oral medication (like antidepressants, pain relievers, or anti-seizure drugs), cognitive behavioral therapy, physical therapy, and exercise, Dr. Williams says. Exercise is tricky given that fibromyalgia sufferers regularly grapple with pain and fatigue, but Dr. Rosick says it can make a big difference. An anti-inflammatory diet may also be helpful, he says.

There is no cure for fibromyalgia, but it is possible to get the pain under control in most cases, Dr. Rosick says. “I’ve seen many people get a lot better where they function better, although some days it’s better or worse,” he says. “I’ve never seen the pain go away completely but I’ve seen it get significantly better.”

Source: self.com

 

 

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